Often partners think they are not ‘fancied’ anymore in the relationship if there is an erection problem.
A common thought they have: ‘is my partner having an affair?‘ If not in a relationship men may worry that they will not get a partner if they cannot get an erection.
Talking with a partner as to how they feel is a good idea. Couples may stop kissing and cuddling if no erection happens and this can make things worse.