In this episode of On Focus, I join Clare Delmar to talk openly about one of the most overlooked consequences of prostate cancer: the impact it can have on sexuality, sexual identity and relationships. Prostate cancer is now the most commonly diagnosed cancer in the UK, yet conversations about intimacy, confidence and connection are still too often avoided.

Drawing on my 25 years’ experience as a psychosexual nurse specialist, I share how sexual difficulties following prostate cancer treatment can arise from both physical and psychological causes. These changes don’t just affect sexual function; they can influence how men see themselves, how they relate to their partners, and how confident they feel in their relationships.

We explore why sexual wellbeing should be considered a core part of cancer care, not an optional extra, and why involving partners wherever possible can be so important. I also discuss the importance of moving beyond a purely medical model, helping men find ways to redefine intimacy and maintain meaningful connections after treatment.

This conversation is about normalising difficult discussions, challenging stigma, and offering reassurance that support is available. My hope is that this episode encourages men, partners and professionals to open up conversations that can make a real difference to quality of life after prostate cancer.